How to Handle Doubt

I had a coaching session with a client of mine who asked:

Q. What do you do when you have a period, which seems to come outta the blue, where you begin to doubt that you can achieve what you want?

My response was:

We all have aspirations of what we want to do and want to achieve. We set out intentions and then we take action. Weather it manifests now immediately or not is not important. What is important is that this thing is what we want to do as it excites us; so we follow the excitement with no expectations. We have no expectations as we must allow what happens to happen. All suffering comes from not accepting what IS.

So the formula:

  1. Set the intention
  2. Take action
  3. And accept, accept, allow allow

This way we remain happy as we follow our excitement. 

The reason we MUST accept what IS, is because…what happens if what we want, is not in out best interest? Or what happens if it is not part of the master plan of this life’s experience? Accepting and allowing and trusting that what is IS, is always in our best interest. I have often seen a door close, only to realize later that its closing was the best thing that has ever happened to me. The Universe is always looking out for what is in your best interest. Many of my past girlfriends are a good example of this. I didn’t want to accept it then, but now, later, it was the best thing and a gift from God actually. 🙂

So trust that you are here, and that you will be taken care of. Make your choices on excitement and be fierce in taking action, but allow what is to be what is and accept it. By accepting you feel no pain. If you feel pain or bad about your path, ask, “what am I not accepting here?” And if you’re unable to bring it into balance, ask your Guardian Angels or  ArchAngel Michael to give you the strength and they will. 

It is my hope that by sharing this answer, it may be of assistance to others.